Love isn't Enough

Love Isn't Enough

By

Markus David Sakoma

10th May 2020.

    Mummy advised you not To get yourself involved in a Relationship till after Secondary School, you snubbed her Advised and got Into a Relationship in your SS2, Of Course What Do you expect from a Guy who is love with a Virgin. He gave You all the Love, But You were Growing up more Beautiful and as Days passed by Guys upon Guys Continued coming your Way, But he was Handsome, the Only guy that had a Cell phone then, somehow you Scaled through Your Secondary, After passing through your JAMB and WAEC Tests, you made Plans and Applied same Tertiary institutions, Yet the Relationship was Unknown to Both Parents.

    What a Different world In the University, One day He decided to Touch you, Something Lead to another, Oh Splash of Blood All around the Bedsheets,  you cried not Because you loosed your Virginity to him, but because of the Pains. 

His Love For you After that Sex Grows Stronger because He Respect you for Been a Virgin at eighteen, sure, since you have Loosed to him, yours' Becomes strong too, Besides there Were lots of Promises that day that makes you Feel covered, You now feel Nothing can Take him away from Him.

   How time flies, You both are two known lovers, both on Social Media and In Real sense, He becomes committed, though at Times He asks he Online Friends out for a Relationship, especially when his Bored, but has never had sex With any Girl apart from you, You move in together in school, You had issues and yet settle your Differences. But Something Began to happen!!!! The issues were Becoming more Frequent, it seems the Relationship was fading, You no longer have issues but break ups and Reconciliations, What has Went Wrong, you begin to question yourself, 

"Have I Not Love him Enough?"

"Have I Not been faithful to him?"

"But our relationship in well known on Facebook, What went Wrong?

" is He seeing another Girl?"

       Things get Out Of Hands, He blocks you on His social Media accounts, He Don't call or text Any Longer, then he Finally asks For A Break up With the Reason that He No Longer has Feelings for you.

   You begin to move on, But its very difficult, because you Find It hard to have a guy who treats you the way he did, you go back to your motivational posts, you Disturb everyone online with your post about relationship, oops you forgot to read same while you were in one, same is applied to every Lady. You see that you ain't getting the attention you want, then from motivational write ups to "All men Are Scum" "Men Are thrash" "No man is a saint" yet looking for a Serious relationship with a man, and you expect a Well thinking man to approach you.

You inbox your Friends, also Friends to your Ex, starts to say Negative things about him, to the Extent you lie about things that never Existed. Have you forgotten so soon that the same people you are Lying to, watched your Relationship like CCTV, and knew he truly loved you, All the lies seems not to be working for you. After many failed relationships, you decided to question yourself, "where did I ever go wrong with him?"

Yet it continues been a Rhetorical question.

But you can find some of your answers if you take you memory back to time!

LOVE IS NOT ENOUGH!!!

Don't take love to be everything in a relationship, 

Have you forgotten that, after he began committed, 

you became one of the dirtiest girl? You no longer make your hair, You took your birth When you feels, he has sex with you wearing same pantiles for two to three days, His friends visits in the morning, and all you are wearing is wrapper, the kitchen is left unkept to the extent he does the cleaning, you talk bad things about mother in-laws in his presence when he has a mother he loves, No more pet names all you know how to call is "Baby"

Quarrels in front of his friends, You spends time of Facebook spying his comments and new tags forgetting about making him happy than always complaining.

You keep friend that dress Sexy, but you have turn yourself to an old woman because you felt you have gotten his heart already, your sex his now boring, you now talk about things you shouldn't talk to him about, just to mention but few.

   If you ain't ready for a Relationship, don't Go into one, Love alone don't keep relationships. In fact men Value Respect than love, because it takes a Girl who loves you to respect you.

Stop saying bad things about your ex just to spoil his Reputation and make him Look like the bad guy.

Remember, Your Current boyfriend is another Person's ex,.if you lay curses on you ex another person would do own you current lover.

It takes maturity to go into a Relationship.

And note that, its better for a guy to let go of you when he discovers there are no longer feeling that wasting your precious time, stop using Sex as an excuse for you pains, Remember you both enjoyed it.

Remember Your ex Could also be something great tomorrow.

N.B Feelings Grows easily, but little things makes them fades easily also, avoid those little things

Don't Don't mind the Errors

#NoGoSitDownLook